Hello. I'm 18 years old, male, and was born and raised in Britain. I randomly came across a girl named Sarah (who's currently 17) in California whilst searching for people on Skype in November 2009, talked for a while then exchanged Facebook addresses. To cut a long story short, we started talking a lot in June 2010, fell in love with each other, then after gathering up enough money, I went to see her in February using ESTA (the Visa Waiver Program). It was.. incredible, absolutely incredible. I had never been happier in my life, and she felt the same way, so I'm coming to visit her again next month and she's coming to the UK to see me in a few months. But, we just.. desperately want to be with each other permanently. We video-chat on Skype pretty much everyday, but we just.. can't stand waiting months to save up money and visit each other any longer. We are so very deeply in love, and are both willing to do pretty much anything to be with each other permanently.

Our families like each other a lot, and both care very much about our relationship. Sarah's family really likes me a lot, as I've been told by Sarah and her family. Her mother has also offered to let me live at their home providing I get a job!

I quit college a few months ago, acquired a job, and started earning as much money as I could so I could visit Sarah more often and also to save up for our future, as we both knew it would be costly. She also acquired a job to save up for those same reasons.

We've been researching a lot about how we can be together permanently and the marriage option has come up often, but we don't know how or what to do.
The only thing we want in life is to just be together wherever, and marriage seems like the best option to us.

If anyone could help us with this we would be extremely appreciative; more than you realize.
If you're just going to criticize and disrespect our relationship, stop, because I'll just ignore your post.

Please help, thank you.

 

Hello, thank you very much for replying and for your kind words!
Our plan was to marry in California with both family's permission as she's under 18, and live there for a few years as I found out about the age limit in the UK a while back. So would marrying and living in the U.S. work for us? We just want/need to be with each other permanently, so bad..
Thanks again, I appreciate it.