I am in the same thing, we filled around july and are still waiting, it's taking 6 months usually, more and less. I know it's long, but believe me I know how you feel. I am trying to come and visit my husband in the states as much as I can with my visawaiver, but even with this you have the risk to be sent back.

 

applying for visa,? they required for employment verification to verify your employment background.