The best course, as far as I can tell, would be to get married in Church of England, register your marriage and then he goes back home on his own. That he can avoid getting a 10 year ban which is obvious in this case since he has decieved the Home Office not once but twice.

You will need to find out with your local registrar office on the procedure to register a wedding that takes place in the church and see what they require. Alternatively, you can get married in his home country and then apply for spouse visa for him. I am assuimg you are a British citizen.

Make sure you start collecting as much evidence of your relationship as possible because even though, the 10 year ban, lets say he gets one, wouldn't apply in case of a spouse visa application, the first thought the ECO is gonna have is, this is a marriage of convenience.

Good luck

 

Hey bubbles read your info and thought it sounded way to familiar as i was in a relationship also with an asylum seeker for nearly two years, he just recently wrote me an email saying to me to move on as he didnt want me dealing with his issue... He got caught coming to see me also worked illegally, lied about his name, and couldnt finish his studies..... This guy is now living in liverpool still waiting on his papers, told me he wanted to marry me and have a family, he never would let me go to his court appeals to see wat was really being said or really going on he lived in london to start of with just sounds all to familiar :|

 

I really hope it works out well for you bubbles, i have moved on but i just cant get over the fact that he has totally wiped me out of his life as if i never existed..... I will never understand it but im not going to crack my head trying because it would get me down.... I have since met an amazing guy that treats me like im the only woman on the planet which makes a difference, go get married if yur heart wants it and live like you both have never lived before because your lives will be so much better and you both will be free of any burdens which will make it easier on your relationship... My prayers and thoughts are with you