Hello everyone,

I am a non EU country citizen(turkish), married with a polish who lives and works self employed in The Netherlands.She stayed longer than 4 years in the Netherlands .My wife is in the Netherlands now but does not have an DUTCH residency permit((verblijfsvergunning)). SHE IS working and paying taxes.
i was once in holland with shengen visa before marriage. I'm planning to join her there. in last week i get residence permit for 1 year valid from poland. I LIVING IN POLAND.
When checking with the Dutch consulate in poland warsaw they told me i need schengen visa and for that from nl someone need to send me invait paper.The Dutch Embassy (90 days period)
My question is------ how i can entry to nl??
my wife she have adress insurance and self employed a work in nl..i have insurance and work in pl .
Is there anyone on this forum who has experience in this kind of situation or know what to do;
We would be very grateful with any information .....

thank you....