The site glassdoor - http://www.glassdoor.com/Salary/Expedia ... -E9876.htm - might be helpful to you. Best of luck!
Figures currently used are from 2009. A recent study from UBS with 2011 figures gives Paris more expensive than London on cost of living - excluding accommodation when London is still more expensive. However you have a lot of flatsharing in London, which makes it easier to find accommodation in a way. Anyway cost of living in London as dramatically decreased as the Sterling collapse from 1.60 EUR to ~1.10 EUR.
In my opinion the salary of the experience software engineer lies between 80-90 thousands per month. Edit: Removed commercial links